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Are You Being Kind To Yourself?

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Are you being kind to yourself_

When you know that you tend to struggle with your mental health, it’s something that you might have to consciously work on for quite a long time. If you’ve ever been in a dark place in your life, you may need to realize that it’s not just going to get better on its own. Or that you’re going to be free to be happy throughout your life. If you want that to be the case, you’re very likely to find that this is going to be something that you have to constantly work through. And on. When you understand that, you’re setting the right expectations for yourself. Because you will need to know how you’re going to cope with tough days and how to manage your mindset. One way to do this is to work with yourself. So, it might be time for you to consider, are you being kind to yourself?

Accepting Yourself

First of all, you’re going to want to work towards accepting yourself. And this can be really hard for some people. It’s not something that comes naturally to us all. But it is the one thing that allows you to be much kinder to yourself mentally. Try to get to know yourself better. From the way you think to your interests, and love yourself. It’s a hard thing to master, but it’s worth it when you can.

Accepting The Way Your Mind Works

As a part of that, you’re going to want to make sure that you’re accepting the way your mind works. If you naturally panic or are negative, don’t fight it. Accept it, and then work WITH it. If you get mad at how it naturally wants to be, you’ll never change it. Instead, you need to kind of overwrite it. So just be kind to yourself here.

Looking After Yourself

It might feel vain and frivolous to take care of yourself, but boy does it make you feel good. A bath, a home facial, even painting your nails – it makes you feel good. Eating well and exercising does. So remember, be kind to yourself and actually look after that body of yours. Because you’re going to be caring for your mind at the same time.

Managing Your Emotions

So the next thing that is going to help you here, is to find a way of processing your emotions and feelings that helps you to stay calm and understand yourself better. It’s important to recognize that emotional wellness should be a priority. When you’re able to manage your emotions well, you should find that it keeps you more balanced in life.

Treating Yourself

And then, there’s the idea of actually being kind to yourself and having things to look forward to. It’s important for you to be able to have some kind of balance in your life. If you have triggers that stress you out, bring on your depression, or give you anxiety, you need to be able to counteract that with happiness. For this, finding different ways to treat yourself that don’t involve spending money or eating junk food is important. You need that bit of ‘me time’ and something fun to do, so that you can have a source of happiness.

This post is partnered and collaborative content.

Nicole Carman

My name is Nicole Carman and I’m a mental health advocate and writer who is diagnosed with bipolar II disorder, depression and anxiety. I'm the Founder of the Mental Health Awareness Project. I’m extremely passionate about raising awareness of mental health topics, including general mental health, mental wellness, and mental illnesses.

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  • January 27, 2019 at 10:11 PM

    Hi Nicole! This has some great reminders and advice for everyone! Great post!

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    Welcome to my own little space on the internet! My name is Nicole and this is my personal blog where I write about mental health. I’m extremely passionate about raising awareness of mental health and mental illnesses. I love helping and supporting others, spending time with my husband and cats, and traveling and exploring new places.

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